Quote for today..... Every grudge you carry takes time and energy that you could be using on something or someone you love.
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Think of someone you may be holding a grudge against and choose to either keep the fire flaming or snuff it out. If it is someone you can talk or write to... why not contact then. If it is someone you have lost contact with but still think about the event that causes you to hold a grudge try writing down how upset you are with them then take that paper you have written on, light it on fire, outside, and let the ashes blow into the wind!!!!!! You may want to do this even if you have contact with the person but are a little embarrassed to let them know you are still holding a grudge. I would suggest though that if this grudge is against someone you are close to (like maybe lives in the same house!!!) Talk it out. You may be surprised at the result. You do have to go into the conversation with a positive attitude and an attitude of forgiveness,though, or you might as well not even bring it up. You aren't ready. You have a little work to do to. If you don't hold grudges but talk it out at the time, pat yourself on the back!!!
So we're heading into the Weekend. I remember loving Fridays, when the boys were in school Out of normal routine for 2 days, no lunches to make and I could relax on the homework nagging a bit. I always found it funny when the boys were young that it was hard to get the up and moving on school days but when the weekends came they were up at the crack of dawn to watch cartoons!!!!! I remember lying on the couch in the TV room to try and catch a few more zzzz's while still keeping half an ear open for mischievous behaviour!!!!! If you're going through that stage now.....this too shall pass!!! If you have adult children, like I do. Take a moment to sit and remember some of those fun weekends.
HAPPY FRIDAY
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