Thursday, 22 May 2014

Be kind on Thursdays......I need your opinion....read my scenario

Today's quote......Every man is guilty of all the good he didn't do.
                                                                                                           Voltaire

So let's try to have as little guilt as possible when it comes to doing good.

I must say this reminds me of a dilemma I often struggle with. 
Soooooo last night I was driving home from work. It was 20 minutes past midnight and I am driving down Russell Rd. For those of you not familiar, it is a country road that, on a lot of nights, I can drive all the way home and see a maximum of 2-3 cars on the road. Anyway about 10 minutes from home I pass a person pushing a motorcycle. Didn't see until last minute as they had dark clothes and no reflective tape. I didn't stop.....and that is my dilemma!!!!!! In my mind we have been told not to stop as things could happen. In my heart I am thinking if that was myself or one of my family or friends I would want someone to offer help. Although I must admit I would be very scared if I was in that situation and someone stopped to help me. My society conditioning as told me this person could be bad!!!! I fought the back and forth feelings the rest of the way home. A few times I seriously thought of turning around and going back. I couldn't have taken the bike in my car and they probably wouldn't have wanted to leave it on the side of the road but I could have made sure that they had phoned someone, I had my cell phone with me. I could have drove them to get help if they lived nearby. Oh my gosh what to do. I seriously think next time I will stop roll down my window and ask them if I could call someone for them. They may have just been a short distance from home or km away I don't know!!!! In my mind I said well maybe another car will come along with a male or more than one person in the car and they will help. I still feel bad obviously or I wouldn't be writing about it. 
Any comments on what you would have done?????

So this is sort of a dilemma but today safely be kind to someone. Perform a random act of kindness. Even being polite to someone like saying thank you when they hold a door for you or thanking the cashier at the grocery can be a kindness not often shown these days. We tend to take service folks for granted.  
Be kind!!!!


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